Sunday, November 25, 2007

Namaste reruns

* Last year I used to blog about deep things - this was one post from my previous blog - I think I'll snatch some of those posts and put them up here...sorry if it's a repeat for some of you friends.

OK, so if you read my profile or spend any time with me, you'll know I'm a LOST geek. (And thanks to Donald Miller, I am now a shameless TV watcher!) So last week's episode had a young Benry arriving on the island with his dad, Roger Workman. Ah, yes - we see Benry is a liar. He was NOT born on the island...wait, let me get back to my point...As they walked up the pier to the beach, they were greeted with the word "Namaste". "Hmm," thought I to my self, "what does that mean? Have I heard that before?"

And then today, in a serendipitous moment, as I sat waiting for Ray to arrive for lunch at Exotic India I notice a small banner on the wall behind the cash register - "Namaste - the divine greeting...Namaste" (I couldn't read it all because I'm in need of an upgrade on my current vision prescription...) There it was in my real life - my LOST world colliding with my Iowa City world!

Being curious, I went to the definitive source of all knowledge - Wikipedia - and found this -

"The gesture used when bowing in Namaste or Gassho is the bringing of both hands together, palms touching, in front of the person -- usually at the chest, or a higher level such as below the chin, below the nose, or above the head.

This gesture is a mudra; a well-recognized symbolic hand position in eastern religions. One hand represents the higher, spiritual nature, while the other represents the worldly self. By combining the two, the person making the gesture is attempting to rise above their differences with others, and connect themself [sic] to the person they bow to. The bow is a symbolic bow of love and respect.

Particularly in Hinduism, when one worships or bows in reverence, the symbolism of the two palms touching is of great significance. It is the joining together of two extremities -- the feet of the Divine, with the head of the devotee. The right palm denotes the feet of the Divine and the left palm denotes the head of the devotee. The Divine feet constitute the ultimate solace for all sorrows -- this is a time-honoured thought that runs through the entire religious ethos."

A month or so ago, I listened to a podcast called "Finding Our God in the Other" by Samir Selmanovic. One of his points was that as Christians we arrogantly presume that God is at work only through "us" "His people" "the Church". Our idolatrous ownership of God and the work of God's Spirit is confronted when, among other questions, Samir asks something like this "If God can speak to us through 'The Matrix' then why not through Hinduism or Islam?"

I have to admit - His question first encounters my fundamentalist Christian layer of "we have the truth". I'm a bit uncomfortable with his question, but more uncomfortable with my defensive reaction to it. For so many years, I have held to a narrow understanding that other religions are false and contain no truth - their tenets are in opposition to Christian belief - they mislead and are man's inventions or even worse, lies of Satan.

But, it is exactly this kind of belief that has made me feel incompetent to genuinely engage in conversation about spiritual matters with people who are not Christians but who are spiritual. You have those people in your life, don't you? They are the people who in many ways make the bumper sticker "Christians aren't perfect, just forgiven" seem like a lame excuse for Christians to be selfish, judgmental, abusive, arrogant..blah, blah, blah... because as "non-Christians" (noun) who are loving, gracious, peaceful and forgiving (yet imperfect and not forgiven?) they seem more Christian (adjective).

That was an awkward sentence - sorry. But I hope you understand. Right there, staring me in the face (as I look in the mirror!) is a "born-again Christian" who looks and sounds little like Jesus and right beside, a Hindu/Pagan/spiritual person who looks and sounds a lot like Jesus. How do I make sense of this?

Somewhere I've had to hold onto my "exclusive truth" belief, thinking it represents Christian orthodoxy. But somewhere it also has felt shabby, vulnerable, a thin tissue paper belief - susceptible to being easily poked through.

When I read about "Namaste" (admittedly a very superficial explanation in Wikipedia - hardly a worthy source!) I am struck by the beauty of it. Something rings true in it for me. Honoring one another deeply - image bearers of the divine, temples of the Holy Spirit.

Too often my Christian world view has reduced people into us/them, lost/saved, sinners/Christians. Too often that world view has left me feeling not human in a way - disconnected from people who aren't like me in belief. I admit this with a bit of a blush at first. But the blush wanes and I'm left admitting this with a sorrowful, repentant heart.

I who want to love others, who preach about loving others - I am afraid of others. What am I afraid of? Afraid of being out thought? Afraid that their lives make more sense, hold more water, are more solid than mine? Afraid that if we start to talk, I will really have to wrestle with a lot of holes poked in my shabby tissue paper dogmatic religion?

I want to be fearless when it comes to poking holes in my religion. Maybe ripping down some of my beliefs will get me closer to Jesus. I want to learn to love as Jesus loved. Somehow "Namaste" teaches me to do that - to love humbly, openly, and connected to others - not above them - one of the humans who get it wrong, but want to get it right - one who needs divine solace, comfort, forgiveness, hope - needs Divine Love in me and needs to be bathed in and transformed by Divine Love.

PS - I know that I am prone to making connections via superficial generalizations (a blessing and a curse). I admit I haven't read a lot about Hinduism or this element of it. I suspect that both Hindus (possibly) and Christians (probably) might point out distinctions that make the beliefs contradictory - places where I'm overlooking the real meaning, etc. But does that mean the superficial parallels are completely useless? I don't think so...but this is fodder for another post, right?

* Speaking of superficial parallels..."the worlds largest praying hands" pictured here stand at the entry of Oral Roberts University in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I think I'm going to have to explore the universality of prayer postures and gestures. (more fodder...another post)

And I was taught that good little Christians folded their hands for prayer so they wouldn't be tempted to poke the other kids in the back of the neck...hmm...I think I may have to go with the Hindus on this one!

Thursday, November 15, 2007

A Political Confession

Barack Obama


So, I've never really been much for politics. But I've found someone I really believe in. Primarily, I believe in Barack because he has a long history of doing the right things for the right reasons. If you don't know about him, please check him out and consider who he is and how he has lived out his values as a community activist and political leader.

I just started reading "The Soul of Politics" by Jim Wallis. This 13 year old book calls for leadership that gets past partisan interests, political power plays, and pandering to special interest groups. I couldn't help but think of Barack - a man who is leading from his belief in the good that comes only from a political system which is built on values and not dollars.

Recently stats were released that showed the amount of PAC money each candidate had received - Barack Obama has taken $25. (Hillary Clinton, on the other hand has taken over $250,000.) In an age where candidates will do anything to get elected, it seems, (almost anything is probably more fair) it is heartening to see a presidential candidate who will not sell out in order to get the seat of power.

I gotta get to bed.

Friday, October 19, 2007

yippee ki-yi-yeah


Tonight was the Briarcliff Fall Party. Titus was super cute in his cowboy outfit. There were lots of other kindergarten boys & girls there who had loads of fun running around the gym.

Just in time for Halloween, Titus has decided that he is allergic to candy. I suppose this better for his health, but it means that Mom & Dad now have carte blanc to raid the stash for chocolate.

It is past my bed time by an hour. Good night.

Sunday, September 23, 2007

sunday @ the plaza arts fest



We decided to enjoy the beautiful fall day by checking out the Plaza Arts Fest. Ray and I were reminded of our natural connection as we consistently liked the same artists and specific pieces. Titus was repeatedly drawn to the sculptures featuring faces. We all decided that buying a bath tub before splurging on a $350 12"x12" painting was probably the more responsible path.

Titus loved a fun little puppet show by a guy who has had a puppet theater in KC for more than 20 years. We liked it too and think we'll look into some season passes. They have some great shows coming up this year.

Finally, we enjoyed some great appetizers at M&S Grille thanks to a tip from one of my co-workers - $1.95 during happy hour. Very tasty tomato bruschetta, hot wings and mini-burgers with steak fries. We'll check it out again although being down on the Plaza reminds us that there is much good cuisine to sample around our fair city.

Saturday, September 22, 2007

ten questions for titus

Q: If you could be any character from a fairy tale, who would you be?
A: Jim, from Jim and the Beanstalk because I don't know what a beanstalk looks like, and I want to know what a beanstalk looks like.

Q: Who is your best friend at school and why?
A: Christian and Nicholas because we like to play spies.

Q: What is your favorite thing you've studied in school and why?
A: Doing the letters because I need to learn the letters.

Q: What do you like best about living in Kansas City?
A: Science City.

Q: What do you miss most about Iowa City?
A: That I'm not close enough that I can see my cousins.

Q: Would you rather be a pirate or ninja? Why?
A: A ninja because I want to do karate.

Q: What are your best qualities?
A: I'm kind of smart, cooperative some times, kind and thoughtful.

Q: What is your favorite thing about Daddy?
A: Sometimes he helps me clean up my room.

Q: What is your favorite thing about Momma?
A: That she doesn't vacuum up my legos.

Q: What is your favorite sport?
A: Football, because you throw balls.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

weekend edition

We're still in a stupor after Iowa's loss to the Cyclones. Painful. I think I'm in for a one-year long underlying bad mood. Why? Anybody but Iowa State!

Today we had lunch with a couple from church, Stephen & Steph. It was great. Steph is an editor for the Nazarene Publishing House. She says they are always looking for writers and encouraged me to submit some stuff. We'll see if I can get that going. Stephen and Ray connected too, although I have no idea what they talked about at lunch - there was something about computers and guitars in there. Anyway, we really had a great time with them and look forward to hanging out with them some more. They offered to help us out with our house and moving, so we're feeling blessed.

I have two more days of training, and then I switch over to my daytime schedule for the next 90 days. I'm looking forward to having dinner with Ray and Titus and generally having my evenings back. BUT I'm not looking forward to 4 am wake ups! I'm praying that I can get a better schedule in three months. Until then, I should become quite healthy, wealthy, and wise.

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

a college football thought

I'll admit it. I'm reveling in the combined 0-4 record of Meeeeeshigan and ND. I know a lot has been made of this historic event. I love it. Losers.

They both have this to be thankful for - since they play each other this week, one team is guaranteed to get their first win. They also both have this to fear - since they play each other this week, one team is guaranteed to lose. Who's going to be 0-3?

What I really wonder is if they weren't playing each other, could either of them win?

Of course, the beloved Hawkeyes aren't gaining ground in the strength of schedule department at ISU this week. This is their third game against a bottom 10 opponent this season. Anything less than total dominance will hurt us, I'm afraid.

We're meeting our friend Abby (and hopefully Aaron too) at The Other Place for the game this coming Saturday. I love September!